The Downside of Partnering Up with Someone with a Host of Quite-Voluble Friends who Feel They are Owed a Portion of Mourning:
We know of her exes, And what she looked like in her twenties. Her intense sorrows, Her ready smile, We knew her art, Her humor. And that she could rock a pair of pedal pushers… We know none of The day-to-day grief, Expectations unfilled, Dread of those times of day, Unable-to-be-shared moments, That life will never be the same, End-chores, Reduced capacity, And accumulated annoyances and obligations, Expressed and un- We pretend to comprehend We don’t begin to comprehend. We care. Gita Endore 2023
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